我之前一直怀疑Sheldon是asexual 但又觉得编剧花了这么大笔墨叙述Amy对爱和性的渴望,应该不会吧 没想到编剧真的就把他塑造成了偏向于asexual 对此我非常震惊。 对Sheldon来说,性就永远是性。 如果没有Amy,他一辈子都不会有性趣have sex 然而这不是重点,这是我可以接受的 现在我感觉编剧告诉我们的是, 即使有了Amy,Sheldon对Amy、对性也没有任何兴趣 但因为Amy需要,他还是会给她,因为他爱她 I think this is the worst reason to have sex. 下面就都是英文了,而且我写的时候比较愤怒,话说得不怎么好听 所以慎看
I’m sorry I didn’t see any desire from Sheldon in yesterday’s episode, which led me to think he really is asexual. I preciously thought the writers intentionally made this episode more about love rather than passion. But no, the episode is not even about love. It’s not sweet. It feels all clinical. I didn’t see at all how Sheldon’s in love and wants to give himself to the woman he loves. He’s just Sheldon, the usual Sheldon with a task, only without saying out loud “Let’s get this over with.” It’s Ok to create an asexual character. It’s Ok to change him to heterosexual. It’s also Ok to keep him asexual and to give him a girlfriend, as long as the girl is on the same page with him. But it’s NOT Ok to bring in a girl who’s clearly not asexual, who needs romance, sex, marriage, passion, who wants to be desired, and give her no choice but to stuck with this who-knows-maybe-he’s-asexual-maybe-he’s-not guy. And then tell us with some shitty plots, you see, even though she can’t get all she wants, she’s actually happier this way, ‘cause he’s just that special. You can’t on one hand keep his sexuality ambiguous because you think the audience won’t accept too much change of him, on the other hand create some cheap romantic plots whenever you don’t know how to fill your twenty minutes and tell us that the boy and the girl are each other’s “true love”. Pick. Your. Fucking. Chair. It’s been almost 6 years. Every interview for this episode is about Sheldon. Everyone is talking about Sheldon. How about Amy? Does she know the reason why all of a sudden his boyfriend is ready? Does she know he doesn’t need sex per se, but he does it for her anyway? Is she Ok with that her boyfriend may never find her or anyone physically attractive (she clearly is attracted to him mentally and physically)? Or she’s just thrilled that her boyfriend finally agrees to sleep with her? The writers weren’t even bothered to show us a tiny little bit of Amy’s thoughts. She just goes along with everything, as she always does. Poor Amy never really had any choices. She’s portrayed as this cold, condescending, robotic scientist when she first met Sheldon, because this is the only way Sheldon would agree to give her a second chance. She then turned overnight to needy and horny because her constantly begging for more and Sheldon bashing her is just so amusing. Even after they broke up, the only decent man who was interested in her is a fan of Sheldon’s. ‘Cause of course he’s a fan of Sheldon’s, who isn’t? “Intimacy in any form has been challenging for me but I’d like to show her how important she is. And it feels like now maybe the right time.” Seriously, what kind of crap is this? So he still hates intimacy (after all these years of him “working on his problem” may I say) but he’ll DO it anyway because Amy needs it? Oh are we supposed to cry because it’s so beautiful? “Wow would you look at that character development? He’s fucking her even though he hates it.” And it baffles me how many people found this line heartwarming because “Sheldon’s a man who could’ve lived a full and satisfying life without it, but will do it not for himself but for the woman he loves.” Really? What if Sheldon’s a girl, and she doesn’t want sex but only does it for her boyfriend? Would you still find it heartwarming and beautiful? Come on, writers, after all these years of people asking “Does he really love her in a romantic way?”, “Is he asexual?”, you have this one episode to make everything clear and this is your answer? So you’re saying yes Sheldon will never need or want sex per se, but he’ll do it for Amy because she needs it and in order to keep her around this is the price he must pay. Also apparently she can redeem her sex coupon once a year because, you know, maybe after a year’s hard work of putting up with Sheldon, she deserves a gift. Disgusting, Disgusting, DISGUSTING.
So what’s next? Are we supposed to grin when they sign their new Relationship Agreement that stipulates their annual (oh maybe quarterly, as it turns out Chuck Lorri has some mercy on Amy after all lol) coitus ritual; to cheer when they go back to Sheldon being a jerk and Amy just going along with everything because “The old Shamy is back yay”; to cry when our little Shelly finally makes the move and proposes to his girl although he’ll never be man enough to be a good husband for Amy but whatever who cares about her; to exclaim how far they’ve come and how “lucky” Amy is to be able to marry Dr. Sheldon Cooper? Their relationship has always been solely about Sheldon. There never was and never will be a Shamy. Does Sheldon love Amy in a way a man loves a woman? Does he desire her? Does he really love her or he just wants to keep her in his life ‘cause he’s a giant baby who needs constant care and admiration? Because even in Sheldon’s most heartfelt confessions, he loves Amy not for what a wonderful human being she is, but for “she made his life better”. Guess I’ll never know the answers. Or, the answers have always been there, I just don’t want to see them. You know what bothers me the most? Not Sheldon’s lack of desire or him being inconsiderate because he’s like that from the very beginning, or the notion that eventually Amy will say yes to be his wife (she’s just a supporting character what do you expect); but the fact that the writers are Ok or even satisfied with all of this. They are more than happy to turn an independent, quirky, strong female scientist to this smitten school girl who waits patiently for her boyfriend’s love. They are Ok with her being unsatisfied emotionally and physically for years in a relationship because she just plain can’t find anyone else. They are Ok with him never able to be a good husband or father yet she will still marry him because duh, it’s Sheldon and he wants to marry you, what more do you want?
之前曾有人说过Sheldon是『Amysexual』 也就是说除了Amy前他不会对没有对任何人产生过性趣 也可以理解为demisexual,因为他爱Amy,所以会对Amy产生性趣 我本来也以为编剧会走这条路 但看完这集,我震惊了 原来编剧想告诉我们Sheldon就是asexual,之前不会之后也不会对任何人产生性趣 他跟Amy做不是因为他终于克服了他的细菌恐惧,也不是因为他长大了对Amy有兴趣了 而是尽管他依然没性趣,但为了Amy,他可以做自己不喜欢的事情以满足她 ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME #SPEECHLESS